“Don’t team up with those who are unbelievers. How can righteousness be a partner with wickedness? How can light live with darkness?”
2 Corinthians 6:14 NLT
I just want to say that too often this scripture is solely used for dating, however, this scripture is actually meant to encompass all our close human relationships. Friends, business partners, and our romantic relationships, Sometimes you just gotta skip over certain people. Don’t be thirsty for just ANYONE or ANYTHING. Just because the liquid is clear, doesn’t mean it’s good for drinking. What if you end up drinking vinegar instead of water? Or worse, bleach!!! Be equally yoked spiritually, but also find someone you are equally yoked with emotionally: meaning, someone can talk to, someone you can actually hang out with. Someone who has similar life values and goals as you. Sometimes, we try to force relationships with people because we simply don’t want to be alone. We end up in unhealthy relationships where we’re attempting to change someone to fit our mold. Skip.
Also, If that guy or girl doesn’t like you like that, move on. Skip.
If you’ve taken the time to know him (give him a fair chance ladies!) and still don’t like him romantically, move on. Skip. It may sound harsh, but nothing is worse than wasting someone’s time because you’re an emotional basket case and can’t decide what you want.